Wednesday, 12 October 2016

I Regret Being a Woman. Lady Battered By Her Husband Cries Out

I have lost my mind. I think I am going to die or lose my mind. Our marriage is 16 years and yet i feel like a stranger in my own house. Any slightest issue or suspicion, my husband will ask me to go and pack my bags and leave. Leave my 5 children and leave his house all in a bid to show me that he was really angry. 

Make no mistakes about this, My husband is a good man but his jealousy turns him into a monster. I have endured and endured. 3 year dating and 16 years of marriage yet my husband dosnt trust me. He dosnt want to see any man around me. He has disgraced me severally just because he dosnt want anyman even looking at me. To him, every other man out there wants to sleep with me. 

Early last year, he started telling me stories of how facebook and whatsapp has broken many home. he finally told me to quit social media. I am a pharmacist and my job at the hospital and even in the church requires that i belong to some whatsapp groups and i tried to explain to him that social media is not all that bad but every other day, he humiliates me in front of my children and househelps calling me unprintable names. He slaps me often whenever he flies into such rage. Last Sunday, he wanted to make love but i wasnt in the mood because my best friend and Godmother to my first son was hospitalized and doctors could not find out the reason for the pain in her stomach. 

I went to see her at the hospital and seeing her in so much pain broke my heart and the last thing on my mind then was sex. I told him, that i wasnt in the mood and that was the beginning of this war. He flared up and stormed out of the room. I thought he will come back when he has calmed down so i waited and sleep off. I didnt know he had other plans, He went into my phone while i was sleeping and started chatting up all the male contacts that i exchange pleasantries with. 

He pretended to be me and was probing the guys for clues. telling them that love word to see if they would give him clues i have a relationship. one of the contacts who i dont even know personally feel for the prank and started getting emotional and romantic. That was all the proof he had and he woke me up with a slap. My ear is still bleeding even as at now. This particular contact only but added me from the pharmacist of Nigeria association whatsapp group and all we have been doing is hello , hi, how was your day. Nothing else. My husband took my phone and was telling him how lonely i was was and how i couldnt sleep just to see if the guy will say anything incriminating. Men being what they are, the guy thought that i was really at the other end giving him a bait so he started telling me he loves me and how he has always wanted to have me by his side. 

That was all my oga needed. he slapped me out of my sleep and hell was let lose. he smashed my phone on the wall. Just because i wasnt in the mood for sex. he started asking me who is david and why i was having an affair with him. it wasnt until he started slapping me continuously and shouting. that he has caught my whatsapp boyfriend that satisfies me and then i began to get a clue about what was happening.  he slapped me 4 good times before i lost count. 

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